Brian and I doing what we love. This is Brian. Obviously, I’m with him as we ride the Santa Fe Century a couple of springs ago. Nothing like a cancer diagnosis to throw a detour into life and our illusion of control of our lives. Cancer changes relationships. Notice how I didn’t say for the good or the bad. It depends. And, I’ve seen it all as a practicing psychotherapist as well as having been married 18 years ago to a man diagnosed with cancer 4 months after we were married